Karen Diener:Let's back things up a little bit.You are linking the spouses which is good. Are you also soft crediting them for each others' giving? The big question after that is whether or not you are generating your mailing list directly from Query results. That will definitely result in a letter for each donor. Query should never be used as the end point for a mailing list.* You start with a query to define your audience, but then use Export to create your mailing list. Export was designed to do Head of Household processing, so if spouse gifts are soft credited to each other, run the Export with the setting to export Head of Household only. You'll get one letter, addressed to the couple (if you've set up appropriate add/sals for them) that contains all of their giving.I am 100% a fan of spouses having separate records when appropriate, and soft crediting giving between them. The "when appropriate" part will vary for every organization.Hopefully everyone's responses will help you resolve the issue!* I've worked with one organization that was able to run mailing lists from Query results because they were Draconian about having one record per household. I cringed every time it happened, but they had some poor database managers prior to that time and I'm not sure they knew any other way.
Thank you Karen,We are soft crediting with each other's giving. I have ran it through export, but my numbers weren't accurate. I just realized that my issue with the export has been with the soft credit.There have been times that a donor will bring someone to my organization who will become a donor, or someone will create a P2P fundraiser, and we will soft credit the person who helped bring in that money. Now that I'm talking through that problem, I'm understanding that those people need to be marked as solicitors or just mentioned as notes because those are not true soft credits. That would allow me to use the export function to include both the normal gifts and the soft credits under the HoH.Do you include the credits and soft credits as one total in your acknowledgements? Thank you for helping me talk through this!